Tips & Tricks
......for a guy in a dress.
Something a little different here, looking for a little feedback:
This is a dilemma I’ve heard many people deal with. What is the best way to react when you see a crossdresser out in public?
There is kind of a sisterhood among cross-dressers and whenever I see one, especially if she’s looking good, I feel a desire to show some kind of support. Of course, at the time I’m in drab and to her I am just another guy that appears to be a potential threat that might make things uncomfortable. I want to give a thumbs-up to say “Way to go” but know that can be misconstrued. Even offering a compliment to her looks is kind of a backhanded compliment since I wouldn’t normally do that to any GG. It’s confirmation that she is not passing and not good for her confidence. Probably the best thing to do is to just ignore her. I wish we had some kind of secret signal. Let’s work on that! LOL.
My wife had a situation a few weeks ago where she felt like she should have done or said something. She was shopping at a second-hand store and a cross-dresser came in and was NOT dressed well. Several people just stopped and stared. My wife felt like she could have taken a few minutes and given him a little help picking out something a little more appropriate. But she was afraid of spooking him or embarrassing him. When I’m out in public I’m pretty content to just be ignored. In that case maybe just ignoring him might not have been the right thing to do. Or was it? Was it satisfying to him to be out and dressed like that? Maybe he didn’t need help and was there picking out more appropriate clothing already. Would it be appropriate or even possible for another crossdresser who isnt dressed enfemm to offer advice?
Is it better to be accepted as a man-in-a-dress or ignored in the way most people just ignore each other?
What do you think is the best way to react to these situations?